Bereavement Services at Priscilla Bacon Lodge

A comprehensive bereavement service is the cornerstone of the holistic care at a hospice. As this falls beyond the remit of core NHS care, the Priscilla Bacon Hospice Charity will fund this vital service.

Our vision is to provide in-person support for patients, their families and loved ones before, during, and after bereavement in a way that meets the needs of the individual, for as long as that support is needed.

Bereavement Drop Ins

Taking place once a month, these 2 hour group sessions are open to anyone who has lost someone important, even if you have not had previous contact with the hospice.

Join us in The Clan Lounge at Priscilla Bacon Lodge for a coffee and a chat, to support one another in a warm, friendly space.

It is free to attend, and refreshments will be available.

To help us to plan for numbers, please book your free place at the link below:

book your place

“I was nervous about coming along; but when I arrived, everyone was friendly, and it was helpful to talk to other people who are going through a similar situation to me.”

Attendee of a Bereavement Drop In session

Services Coming Soon

The following services are currently under development and will become available to the families of Priscilla Bacon Lodge patients later in 2024:

  • Facilitated Support Groups
  • 1-1 Counselling

When funds allow, we hope to extend the service into open-access bereavement counselling, providing psychological counselling and other support for anyone who has been bereaved.

Understanding Bereavement

Bereavement is something that most people will experience in their lives, and everyone reacts to their loss in their own unique way. Knowing a little of what you may expect during grief may help. Although no two experiences of bereavement are the same, it may comfort you to know that most people go through similar experiences.

Grief is a natural reaction to the death of a loved one. Grief can be very painful and may give rise to thoughts and feelings that you don’t usually experience or expect. People often describe feelings of disbelief, numbness, difficulty sleeping, loss of appetite, palpitations and shortness of breath, forgetfulness, confusion and poor concentration. They also talk about feeling intensely sad and lonely, with or without tears.

Some tell us how anxious or angry they feel. Others talk of feeling guilty about what they did or did not do, or what they are managing to do without their loved one; what was said or left unsaid, and their feelings towards the person who died. You may find yourself veering from one emotion to another and opposite emotions may be felt in quick succession. Sometimes, more than one emotion may be felt at the same time.

Let us reassure you, none of these things are in any way abnormal. People grieve in different ways: you may experience all or only some of these things, as well as others that we have not mentioned. In time, you will feel more hopeful about your future; your memories will be less painful and bring you more comfort. There is no definitive timescale as to how long this will take.

When to seek help

If these feelings interfere with your activities of daily living, such as sleeping and eating.

If these feelings become intrusive and persistent, or come to you in nightmares or flashbacks, or become so overwhelming that you think you may harm yourself or another.

Please contact your GP, or The Samaritans by calling 116 123.

 

Useful contacts and links

NHS England: call 111
First Response: 0800 952 1181 (Urgent mental health support)
Norfolk County Council Bereavement Support 
NHS Guidelines – Coping With Bereavement
Good Grief Trust
Grief Encounter
Wellbeing – NHS Norfolk and Waveney Talking Therapies
Sue Ryder
Rosedale Bereavement Support Groups
Cruse Tel: 0808 808 1677
Widowed And Young
StrongMen (men 18+)
Nelson’s Journey Tel: 01603 431788 (bereaved children and young people)
Winston’s Wish (bereaved children)
Compassionate Friends (bereaved parents and their families)